Unity Bond

Why Bother If You Can Ignore?

2012-05-10T01:22:00.000+08:00

Have you ever been stalked before? Or be stared at, by some unknown and unfamiliar strangers around you? It's normal for you to be worried, but I think its no big deal. In fact, why bother if you can ignore? Just forget about it, you have a lot more things to be concern about.

For me, I always assumed they were looking at someone/something else, partly because I once smiled at them before but have been ignored. Save some embarassment and awkwardness to yourself, nobody wants to be in that situation.

I believe that person certainly needs attention from you, either you'll be greeting them first, otherwise, or end up awkwardly. When that person wants to talk to you, they will urge themselves to greet you. That's it. Unless that person is super shy or socially-quiet in real life.

Take this with a grain of salt. Some may prefer to stood out and ask. Maybe that person knew you. Maybe they were mistaken for someone else. Maybe they just like glancing with their eyeballs. Either way, don't simply judge them by their behaviour. There's nothing wrong at being good with everyone, even strangers.

Short Text or Long Text?

2012-03-22T14:36:00.002+08:00

Recently read an article about how internet changes how we read and what we gotten into reading...

With the advancement of the tech, and also thanks to the creation of SMS and Twitter and whole lot more similar messaging network. Factual sources have proved that the more days we spent on computers, staring and scanning through the texts on screen would decrease the reading rate time spent on books. (physically real book)

Ever tried reading a lengthy book or long articles and end up skimming through for the points or just directly skipped it. Instead, we would go for short paragraphs texts which convey shorter, precise and more concise messages.

But it contradict, somehow, that how would you be able to interpret a short text while sometimes you just need to read the long winded explanation to understand it altogether? Ever try explaining the "process" in a short paragraph? More often than not, it may fail.

So short text or long text? Which one would you go for?

An Answer Of Life

2011-07-14T17:33:00.001+08:00

Recently, one of our bloggers of Unity Bond asked us this question. Here would be my opinions and response.

"If you fall from a very tall place, would you get up and move on or climb up and try again"

I believe that this question totally applies to our life.

Falling from the top are painful and it hurts of course. Some people fall so hard that they couldn't be able to climb back up while some couldn't resist the reality of falling. First of all, to know the reason of falling. You have to know what causes the fall so you could learn by the mistakes and think of solutions to overcome it. If you are able to do this, you are ready to climb back up, because you know and because you are prepared.

Only when you have found the reason, and you don't think you can overcome it, is where people tend to move on. Mistakes are harsh. Failures are disappointing. Falling is painful. Not everyone in the world could face such mistakes and failures in life. Most importantly, you have to understand the reason behind every causes and consequences which would only allow you to decide if you want to climb back up.

If you want to climb back up, knowingly what causes you to fall and know what's up ahead of you. Moving on is an alternative to avoid the battle or to climb as you know you will not win or you couldn't climb.

Hopefully, you could make the right choice in your life. As the choice you choose determines the journey of your life.

:)

The Stage Play

2011-05-07T11:31:00.010+08:00

Like it or not... Life is about stage playing which means all the dramas and acts that are not you.

Easily said, you are not being who you suppose to be when being put up in a different stage altogether. I wonder if life is like that... To be pushed when you don't like it to be, to say yes when you heartily objects to it, to look the best when you knew that you are not and to admit that everything is fine when things are not.

Perhaps it is the way that we learn. To learn to accept things that was set, to follow what others are doing, to be blamed when things doesn't go accordingly and to pick up the mess of people which doesn't belong to you. Mistakes are a part of learning. But hey, learning to pick up shits by other person mistake are worse. Sometimes just being who you are would be the best at times. It is better to say NO when being pushed and do the things you want it to be rather doing it for the sake of as the way it is.

Nobody can be somebody else but yourself. Live your life!

The Standardization Of Life

2011-03-24T15:22:00.001+08:00

Doesn't this statement just sound so wrong? Oh yes. It sounded doubly wrong because the world will never be standardized. The world is so diversified with so many culture, opinions, thoughts... Until the existence of standard are so hard to be unified. A common understanding are so hard to be understood by all parties which create conflicts and miscommunication sometimes. "It takes a day to understand one's culture" which is so true.

But let say, we as human being. Share the same principle. Same mindset. Same mission. Would the world be unified? Living towards a world of less selfishness and having the same living standards. This would be what the world today is trying to create or to envision. Towards the unification, the fulfillment to reduce the gap, for equality, for the common to be shared.

We are moving towards the standardization of life. So that we could eat what the other side is eating and watch what the others are watching. Can I just equal this statement to globalization? Although it may sound the same but it does not bring the same meaning.

How To Multitask Your Tasks, Efficiently

2011-02-15T02:32:00.003+08:00

I have learned my lesson, never delay any of your work! Its sucks to rush out our adrenaline to get the job done. Or worse, when something gets in the way. You probably thought that "I should have did this earlier, I should have done that"... etc. That sort of regretment matures us over time, but it is still depends on people though.

Let me highlight 3 key points which can lead us to a better multitasker. One: Responsibility. Two: Commitment. Three: Honesty. Note that I have been practicing these 3 key points and reflect it to my life, so far it feels great to be a better multitasker.

One: Responsibility. We should learn to be a responsible person. Well, its easy to say than actually to do, but take it easy. Time will tell, and you probably don't even notice that you're actually a responsible person when finishing up your tasks. Like when your boss assigned you a task to finish off by tomorrow. At first, you would complain (relax, it's normal). Then, once you start doing your task, you will automagically have the guts to finish it by tomorrow! Sure, rushes often produced a not-so-good results, but our next key points can transform it into not-so-bad! Read on.

Two: Commitment. When you do your tasks, any tasks, always spice it with commitment (even though you hate doing it). Commitment has always been the proven secret recipe that's best with our first key point, Responsibility. When you mix responsibility and commitment, it encourages your adrenaline hormone to do it right, in this case, your tasks. As a result, you'll end up with good results that matches no other!

Three: Honesty. Always remember, commitment don't just pop out to your mind without actually being honest to get it done. You will need your encouragement. Encourage yourself to be honest when you're doing your job. Once you start being honest to yourself, you would have the commitment and responsibility to finish off your task, efficiently.

There you go, three key points that you should master. Once you done that, you can multitask your tasks more efficiently, without actually draining your time unnecessarily. Try it, it feels good to get the job done faster, until there's one time I felt like I got nothing to do since all of stuff I need to do has already been made. Good luck!

The Perfect World: Zeitgeist

2011-02-06T20:19:00.003+08:00

Do you believe in "What If"?

What if we lives in a peaceful world?

What if we can share everything?

What if there are no hatred?

What if there will be no war?

What if we can stop discrimination?

It has been awhile since I watched this movie. "Zeitgeist : Addendum" and share this out...

It is about how can WE together living in different parts of the world to make a perfect world. To break boundaries. Towards fulfilling what we all envision and hope for life.

Peace. Harmonies. Everywhere.

It sound so impossible but yet I do believe in making it happening. It is hard for me to explain it all. But this movie was recommended by a Brazillian friend I met in Guangzhou, China. Upon watching it, it changes my life in how I see things around me. You can watch it online at http://www.zeitgeistmovie.com/ or more info here, Zeitgeist, The Movie.

Beware : It is a brain-washing movie! You are warned!

The "Halo" Effect

2011-02-06T02:05:00.003+08:00

The halo effect is a cognitive bias where the perception of one trait like a characteristic of a person or object is influenced by the perception of another trait of that person or object. An example would be judging a good-looking person as more intelligent.

That's the definition from Wikipedia. I do have my own perception when it comes to judging a person or object. Right now I don't want to write about my certain perception towards a person, so let me touch specifically on objects instead.

When we go to the shopping mall looking for electronics, for example, you might have probably look for the best, right? You surveyed the same category of products under a different brand, noting its specs and pricing. After all the fuss, you bought a fan from Panasonic instead, even though there were other brands that offers much more features under better price. Why?

The answer is brand loyalty. You are practicing a bias behaviour. You would expect that product you bought works great as the ones you already have, obviously under same branding. You don't care about the competing products out there because you knew the brands you used for years will have its future in your home. That's a halo effect.

For me, after I got my first iPod shuffle, I replace it with an iPod nano, followed by the iPod touch and now the iPad. Notice my brand loyalty towards Apple? You probably been affected by the halo effect as well, like once you bought a Hawaian Chicken-pizza from Pizza Hut, you don't even bother the others. This halo effect applies to a person as well, for example, you would think most kids are usually annoying, or most Malays are talkative (these two were negative perceptions, so please excuse that).

Note that the halo effect can lead to both positive and negative perceptions towards a person or object. Do keep this in mind.

Is Social Network Our Answer?

2011-01-24T03:04:00.001+08:00

Recently The Social Network was played in the Malaysian cinemas and it wowed the audience and even bagged quite a number of awards in its pocket. While this movie is about the most famous social network on the web right now, the movie doesn't really show us about Facebook but more of human nature which can be seen by Jesse Eisenberg while he's playing Mark.

Day by day, more people sign up for Facebook and it's uncool or embarrassing if you don't have an account. They would say that you are unsociable and that everyone should have Facebook. This brings us back to the question, does social networks really improves our social life?

These days technology has taken over the world and humans can't live without it anymore. We communicate lesser and yet spend more time on SMS, Facebook, gaming consoles and such. This can really be seen by university students whom kept themselves in their rooms after class to go on Facebook or to earn those achievements on their XBox.

It doesn't have to be that way just because these technologies existed. All it takes is a bit of effort to make new friends or go for events or even learning something new. Even though it may just be a few hours every week but at least that face-to-face connection is there and there's no side effects in doing something much more sociable than Facebook. Who knows, maybe you'll meet your match this way.

About a Plug and a Socket

2011-01-21T15:22:00.001+08:00

Can you describe a socket and a plug? Is there any relation between them? Obviously yes. Socket has three holes (2 holes depending on the country). It has the power and waits for any plug to jump in and collect its powers. Without a socket, a plug won't get the power. Then if a plug don't have the power, thus our electrical appliances won't work. A plug will always require a power from a socket to function.

You may asked what is the rationale of this story. Well, I was trying to relate it with a teacher and us, the regular people. To put it simply, we ourselves are the plug while a teacher is described as the socket. We always need a socket to function, just like you and me require a teacher to get the necessary knowledge to survive.

But if we are the spoiled plug, don't look for a socket to plug in to. A socket won't be able to help a spoiled plug. Don't ever blame the socket for the problem, instead, look at yourself and asked why it happens. Get it? In other words, if we are lazy to lookout for our own problems, we can never get the solution, thus unable to fix ourselves (the spoiled plug). So if you are the good, working plug, everything just works when you connect to a socket.

One more thing, do not attempt to look out for a spoiled socket. A malfunctioned socket could damage the plug as well. Even the source can make it even worse. Who knows if we gets electrocuted! Always find the good ones instead.

There you go, the relation between a socket and a plug, thus us the regular people and teachers. What I mean teachers not necessarily reflect the word, it could be your parents, your best friends, your loved ones... etc.

Think about it.

The "YES" Attitude

2011-01-21T13:39:00.002+08:00

YES! The very word that brings opportunity across. In many cases, many people giving rejection, providing excuses, denying the facts and missed opportunities because they say NO. Subjectively, the word YES may only be used in particular scenario and cases BUT in most of our daily activities, the word "YES" is lacking in our society today.

The YES attitude reminds me of the movie "Yes Man' starring Jim Carrey which tells of a story of a man who couldn't resist to say NO. That movie directly reflects on our society. By saying YES, he could have done so much. He could have met so many people. And grab so many opportunities lying ahead. It's a matter of attitude. As human being, we are trained to say NO at certain circumstances but not NO to every circumstances. The word "YES" is so powerful to make one do so much and explore more.

Let's challenge ourselves by saying "YES" for one whole particular day. And see what happens.

I am pretty sure the outcome would be very very interesting. :)

Focus On The Solution, Not The Problem

2010-04-15T09:56:00.002+08:00

There is always this says and always of this occurence in a company or an organization. When a problem arises, individual usually seek for the root cause of that problem, which is good at certain point to know what causes it and learn by mistakes of not repeating it. But over focus on why that problem arises and starting to blame self or others due to the problem is ineffective and time consuming. Instead, bring yourself to think about how to solve the problem! Think about the probable solution to tackle and overcome the problem. Make a list of what can be done and choose the best out of it. I know that this statement may sound very much from a textbook, but in reality, most of us oversees this.

Many people in an organization or a company could not and unable to use their thinking skills to solve a problem. The main reason because of this is that they never even think and practice of focusing on the solution when a bad situation arises. It in imperative for an individual to have the sense of vision on the worst case. Like to foresee the worst to come and if it does, what are you going to do about it. Most of us, instead, are afraid and not able even to accept the worst thing that may fall upon us. And if it does, we never know what to do. So do you think you are able to accept the unacceptable and prepare and know what to do if the worst is ever to happen? (don't even think of if it's the end of the world)

Living Comfortably, Don't We?

2010-03-27T15:50:00.003+08:00

Are we living in the comfort zone? Be it a developed country or developing countries, I am very and proudly to say "Yes". We are living in the comfortable zone and yet sometimes we don't appreciate them. A very good book that I read from, explains evertything. Especially in business field, these business people, they mostly don't care whatever things that they're doing (but some) that what they focus mainly on profits. Here is one good example:

There is this very modern and people-like-to go shop, (which the name not be mention) that usually get good and frequent customers. It is a somehow like a coffee shop. This shop is located in the shopping mall. Everyday passing this shop, the seats are always full and people are waiting in line to get a place. On a very different day, as usual for me to walk pass that shop. I saw another shop sharing the same name, newly built just two lots from the previous shop! So I was very curious and like "What the heck are there two same shops just steps away from each other?" Thus, I took the initiative to ask the person in charge of the shop. He explains and tell me, because there are too many customers and that the seats are not enough, so they decided to build another one next door!

Even sometimes, we can see that there will be more than two shops sharing the same name, selling the same product or services in a building. Is this even necessary? By having a whole shop lot, you will need to get extra building services, building fitments and extra refurbishment for it! Is that even necessary to make extra shops when you already have one? Why not just renovate the same shop and make it bigger instead of building a whole new one? Based on this, we are really wasting resources more than we need to. We are really living in this comfortable zone to consume the resources as much as we can and waste as much as we can instead of saving them. Do they even care? Or do you?

Meanings To Our Lives

2010-03-15T01:37:00.003+08:00

Recently I have been getting in touch with a thing called roleplaying games. It may feel like a geek thing but what I discover from this little book is a part of the meanings to our lives.

Some may be familiar with the artwork of this game as it is the game from a comic book called 'Mouse Guard' which is about a mouse in an organization who helps the other mice in the Territories in any way possible. What I stumbled upon as I flipped through the first few pages was the motto 'It's Not What You Fight, But What You Fight For'. Such a simple motto but yet poses such great challenges to one because it doesn't matter what the mouse has to face as long as he can safeguard the Territories and bring honour to the organization in all his actions.

As I read more about the game, two interesting concepts of the game struck me hard, which are Beliefs and Goals. A Belief in this game is a statement that you yourself believes in such as 'a person should never give up no matter what the challenge is'. A Belief or a statement like that actually creates a structure/way for our mind to think and also helps us make our decisions and actions in life.

A Goal is basically what your character would like to achieve after a session which really relates to our lives. We all started with a goal or an ambition in our lives but it changes on and on until somehow we lost track of what our actual goal in life is. Some may set and achieve all the goals they have but yet some may even lose all their goals in their lives and that's when depression starts to kick in.

Three simple concepts could create a character in a game; but imagine it in a bigger picture. It creates life. It defines us. It creates a purpose. It creates a meaning to us. Different people have different mottoes, beliefs, and goals, but challenges are always on our path. So do write these three meanings to your own life down and always keep it with you, as how we keep our mottoes in every page: "Now uniquely yours!"

It's Your Journey... Not Ours

2010-03-05T20:35:00.001+08:00

Life is all about how people live, be it happily, struggles and satisfaction. The list goes on. Everyone have their own story to share, I have mine and you have yours. Have you ever heard of the statement of "Life Is Not About The Destination But How We Travel To It That Matters"?

It is so true that life certainly need goals and objectives, but above all, it doesn't really matter about whether you achieve it or not. It is the journey and the process of achieving it that make the best memories and wonders in your life even if you did not achieve the goals you wanted. It is the satisfaction of the journey and efforts and all the things that you faced through that really really matters.

You and I have been hearing so many successful stories of others. But those stories and not yours and it just provide you motivation and inspiration to be as good. So go and make your story!

Meet the Hot, Flat and Crowded Earth

2010-02-18T23:12:00.008+08:00

Really pardon me with the title which was taken from this book by Thomas L. Friedman title "The World Is Hot, Flat and Crowded" This book was published end of 2009 and I bought it not any longer after that but still I couldn't manage to finish it despite my busy life. Wahaha~~

Never mind about that. Reading that book really makes me feel like the President of United States of America. Reading it makes me float above the globe and travels all around the world, watching views from different country side til viewing from West to East perspective. It is a book about how the world function as a whole from each different country and its impact as a whole. Let me break down the three terms:

Flat = Globalization
The world today is so FLAT that it doesn't look round anymore. You can see what other people across the sea are doing and what they're thinking. Globalization makes the world borderless than before and enables anyone to know anything that is happening. Internet and global outreach explains it all.

Hot = Global Warming
Today, the Earth we are living are hotter than ever before. Thanks to globalization, we create so much and consume too much from this planet that leave the footprints that was so heavy, perhaps so heavy that the impact was irreversible causing animal species to extinct, nature environment losing its touch and biodiversity to non-biodiversity. And today, we are suffering the cause of our action. The nature is calling and we are getting the pain.

Crowded = Population
I don't think I need to explain this further. As people meet people, electric connection sparks and WALAA! Another fat, round cute baby! Yup. The Earth are getting too dense with human population and too dense with human habitation. There is just not enough for everyone. That is the reason we have salvation, die of hunger, living like stray and etc. Population is a major problem for every country and it is uncontrollable from growth.

So what happens when Flat + Hot + Crowded equals to? You gonna get this book in stores today! Well, I couldn't really see this book in display anymore on bookstores' shelves. Go find it! MUST READ!

How International Are You?

2010-02-02T19:05:00.006+08:00

Talking about international or global. How far are you exposed to being "international"? Today we are living in the 20th Century and gosh, stop reading local newspaper or even listen to local radio station! Why not listen to the international when you can forget about the local! I am not advocating of not supporting your local team but of course, children who are born today are surrounded by global and international stuff. They are so exposed and so connected to all countries like a spider web interconnected to each other. Wow. Here are a few things to consider being international:

Are you listening to international music instead of local?
Are you reading local news or the international one?
Are your friends international?
Do you have any problem travel across to other country with your international friends helping you?
Are you listening to international radio stations instead of local one?
Are your product brands international?
Are you eating food that came internationally or imported?
Do you read books written by international authors?
How often you play games online with international players?
Do you watch international movie instead of local one?

Hmmm... Are you international enough?

Instead of Ask "What", Why Not Ask "Why"?

2010-01-07T13:26:00.002+08:00

It is a natural phenomena and becoming a norm in our society that we are so busy in our daily life be it searching for own or family happiness or pursuing own desire or keeping pace with the world. Many and millions of people read newspapers. And I think you are one of the reader yourself. But don't ever this question cross your mind when you are reading these media. What you are reading and gaining information is to know "What is happening to this World" Does anybody give a damn to find out "Why does it happen instead?"

The answer to that question for most people is a "No". Clearly, people read newspapers everyday and even at times when they are reading a false or manipulated stories given by media. In the end, it turns out to be chaotic when each starting pointing fingers on one another without knowing the truth behind and just simply rely on news from media everyday. Information and even knowledge, be it factual or fictional are always manipulated and even worse, giving wrong statistics and blindly trusting them will lead to unimagined consequences. What I am trying to tell you is, don't solely depend on one resources to judge everything. Get a piece of evidence, do more homework and you will find out which research is correct and which is false.

Let me just ask you this simple question and I can assure you that 80% of people don't give a damn to this question. "Do you know that 2009 economy downturn was the worst ever recorded in history? And do you know why?" Bet that everyone knows that the economy turns out badly these days but no one even bother to find out why. Strange huh?

They are Socially Active; But Quiet in Real Life

2009-12-22T12:56:00.002+08:00

I guess that's best describe me; most of my friends are surprised to see how active I am on social sites (eg: Facebook) but in reality, I'm just a guy who talks when need to. I usually don't start a conversation until they do. I'm trying to be low profile, but I'm extremely shy when I met new people in person.

Are you that type of people? Or you're opposite in some ways? One of my housemate are, and he seems mysterious to me cause we never greet nor talk. Or probably you're one of these; either you are socially active everywhere or the opposite. I don't know, after awhile, I realized that I need to get close to people; to get to know them better.

What do you think? Are you one of them? If so, do you demand for a change? To become a better person which doesn't shows the real you?

What if you're used to your own family members calling you boring? I'm the least talented, probably the least intelligent one in my family and have no girlfriend. I do try, but fail. So, it does get to you, you know? But yeah, I have secure amount of friends and family who backed me up, and I'm glad I do.

The first time people met me, most probably that they think I'm lame, dumb or whatever they could think of. I just look on their faces and I knew what they have in mind. Okay, by writing this does not necessarily mean that I have low self-esteem, but I'm looking for guidance out there who can help me. Anyway, why not spend 2 minutes to watch this video:

Political Influenza. How Long Will It Lasts?

2009-12-19T10:16:00.004+08:00

Every country needs a stable political party, with a government which strives to be good and the opposition to correct what's wrong. Unfortunately, not many political parties can cooperate. They instantly throw bombs at each others, thus resulting in poor performance of that country's growth. Name one? Malaysia for instance.

It's been more than 50 years of independence, and the opposition have not yet be given a chance to rule the land of Malaya. Votes counted, elections go by, but still the "current government" stays.

What's wrong with these people? Don't they see something wrong? Other countries change their government at least once every 20-40 years but not this country. Even Japan just did. Was it because they did something nice to us (mostly before elections be held) thus we voted for them?
If you're one of these voters, you may need to open your eyes wide. Many international medias broadcasts exclusive happenings, be it televisions, newspapers,... you name it.

Ruling government should not be sitting for long time. They will become irrelevant. They'll start showing off. They'll use their veto power. Thus, an H1N1-like influenza have started. Example? A meaningless 1Malaysia propaganda.

Since Tourism Malaysia reads our blog too, we think it would be unnecessary to mention those "names".

Life Sucks; Don't They?

2009-12-18T07:11:00.000+08:00

No matter how lucky we are, we always have bad luck chasing us around. Be it you having a worst exam results, had a fight with your teacher, or possibly you just lost a job; life doesn't really seems like they meant to. To have a good life, its not as easy as searching for guides on the net.

Changing The World Is Impossible Without You Making a Change

2009-09-14T15:53:00.007+08:00

There are many people who don't like their life. Who is always unhappy and make complaints everyday and everytime and every chances they get. You are living in a miserable life and yet you still live it. So you may as well kill yourself and say goodbye to the world because the world seem not treating you right! But the problem is, you are not treating the world any better!

Have you seen people complaining so much that he or she think that himself or herself was the best? That person is babbling that why are you like that and why is she like that without bothering asking why am I like that? Weird isn't it?

Research has shown that 95% of people in the world are taught to blame others when they did something wrong. Almost 100% of people used to blaming others. While blaming is not the solution, it may be true in certain circumstances that people blame you of your wrongs and mistakes. But doesn't it seem wrong when that person who blames you doesn't even doing it right?

Just cut the crap and stop blaming people. Take a look on how good you are before putting blames on others. "You can never help changing the world to a better place to live in without having yourself change in treating the world"

Do Not Judge People

2009-09-14T15:41:00.006+08:00

Do Not Judge A Book by its Cover. A really good statement that put us through. Well, yeah, gossips been running and gossips can never be true! Gossips talking about this guy and this guy, its simply plain judgement. What was the first impression in making friends? Their clothes, walking style, way of talking, cleanliness and others. These are physical judgement but you can never tell what's going on in their brain!

A very quiet and introvert people does not mean that he don't have friends and seems like a dumb ass. He or she might having a lot of knowledge and experience but you can never tell. Simply judging is absurd and pointless.

A guy that is in his twenties may not look matured but hell, he is so organized and making tons of money! He simply just wear normal clothes and look just like everyone else.

People who look rich and boastful doesn't mean they do and people who are humble doesn't mean he's an idiot. We only know them well when we been through in their place.

We Are Connected. Aren't We?

2009-09-06T06:01:00.006+08:00

We as human being are somehow inter-related or inter-connected to each other. But the strange thing is that only of those people we know and met are getting the connection with us.

That may sound complex. Let's look at an example, have you ever think of someone and feels like talking to them then out of a sudden, that particular person calls you or message you on the phone?

Or when you and your friends are talking about a person and he or she pops out of nowhere and approach you?

Is this just a coincidence? Or are we somehow be bond to a kind of frequency that our mind generates and transmit to the air as undefined waves that call upon the person we think of? It is beyond scientific explanation because this undefined waves can actually approach another person which the distance can be miles away or even across the sea. But facts have proven that EVERYONE faced this experience before. Don't believe? Ask your friend or parents, they have been through this many times.

So what is behind this mystery that people often foresees? Are we connected with each other where what we think may reach the other person's mind? A strange world indeed with unanswered questions and unexplainable.

Readers Are Nerds. Are They?

2009-08-08T13:44:00.007+08:00

Some avid readers is totally a book worm; they carried books almost everywhere they go, regardless of any time and any size of the book. Once you saw them, you whisper to yourself, "Great, nerds are suckers...".

Personally, I think book worms are nerds, but readers are not. Let me explain the definition of book worms; it's like a worm and a tree. Both living things (to me) depends on each other. Each benefits themselves that you can't separate them apart. Similar to a book and a nerd, it's a must to read a book.

Meanwhile, I don't think readers are nerds. Readers come from the word "read". They only read when they have to. They are independant, book worms are not (and I think worms even rely on the books on how to live life). They don't have a strong passion on books because to them, books are optional instead of compulsory...get it??

So, it's time to set this straight. Do you want to be a reader or a book worm? The rest is up for you to decide. Personally, book worms is nothing more than to show off their meaningless passion towards books that I don't think people even care what they have been reading. Oh, come on; just read a carton of it at home, you don't have to show off the details. Who cares?!!

P.s: I hate people showing off their asses. As if they are perfect at everything. So what if you found a penny in your toilet? Nobody's perfect, that's the fact.